tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7909767894013061203.post4578755301198838966..comments2023-05-10T02:49:13.016-07:00Comments on Desperately Seeking Me: It Ain't Easy.Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13321679957417122241noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7909767894013061203.post-70550001161627699532009-09-11T12:32:17.849-07:002009-09-11T12:32:17.849-07:00you know what, I totally have done that, sometimes...you know what, I totally have done that, sometimes we may tend to subconsciously sabatoge something that is good, out of fear...I've been with my guy over a year and we live together, with my two little girls. It's been amazing. But last night, I was in tears over a conversation that wasn't necessarily a bad one, but it was emotional for me and he grabbed me and goes, "whatever you are afraid of, I'm not leaving this, ever!" And I realized that I was afraid that one day something might make him just up and leave. Considering we have no issues, it's silly to project this fear of the future! It's just plain scary to trust ourselves sometimes, much less the other person!thisnewplacehttp://thisnewplace.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7909767894013061203.post-72620295594407585102009-09-05T13:20:55.932-07:002009-09-05T13:20:55.932-07:00Anonymous again.....this is so totally normal. Yo...Anonymous again.....this is so totally normal. You are not only learning to trust others but yourself. <br /><br />And you are setting new boundaries for others and yourself. I learned to stand up for myself and speak my mind. Took me (still learning) months to realize that I didn't have to fight to get my voice heard and appreciated. <br /><br />This too shall pass. Stay honest with yourself. Is it the guy or the idea of having a great guy that loves me?? There are plenty of great guys out there. <br /><br />I still find myself picking fights just to be reassured that this is really real and he does love me and I dont have to worry and fret if he is going to leave me. This is the real thing.<br /><br />We have been married almost 2 years. I'll let you know when I fully relax and let go. But I will tell you, life with a great man is phenominal!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7909767894013061203.post-78379626320558806832009-09-04T21:39:53.548-07:002009-09-04T21:39:53.548-07:00You are going to be just fine my friend. It will a...You are going to be just fine my friend. It will all only get better from here. Love you!Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10919559208190519000noreply@blogger.com